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About Dr. Lehmiller

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Dr. Justin Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years.

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How to Build Stronger Relationships This Year

January 5, 2026 by Merissa Prine

The New Year is often a time when people set intentions for self-improvement, whether it’s setting a new goal, changing an old habit, or strengthening relationships with important people in our lives. In a recent podcast episode, we spoke with Ashley Weller, a professor of psychology at Chapman University, about things anyone can do this...

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How to Build Stronger Relationships This Year
The State Of Dating Entering 2026
The State Of Dating Entering 2026

December 24, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

As 2025 comes to a close, we’re reflecting on some of the dating trends we saw this past year. We’re also discussing what these trends might mean for the dating...

Dating & Relationships
Do Sex Toys Improve Sexual Satisfaction?
Do Sex Toys Improve Sexual Satisfaction?

December 18, 2025 by Merissa Prine

Let’s be honest, almost everyone has found themselves scrambling for a last-minute holiday gift at some point. If you’re still searching for a memorable gift for your partner this year,...

Dating & Relationships, Potpourri
New Technology Helps Treat Erectile Dysfunction At Home
New Technology Helps Treat Erectile Dysfunction At Home

December 10, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

** Note: This post is sponsored by Firmtech. ** Erectile dysfunction (ED) is one of the most common sexual health issues experienced by men. [1] It becomes increasingly prevalent as...

Sex Ed
Top Books We Read in 2025
Top Books We Read in 2025

December 4, 2025 by Merissa Prine

As this year comes to a close, we’re reflecting on all of the incredible books we’ve covered on the podcast and blog in 2025. We have learned a ton about...

Books & Films
Self-Pleasure As Menopause Symptom Management
Self-Pleasure As Menopause Symptom Management

November 26, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

Recently, we covered a new study assessing how trends in masturbation have changed over time. This research found that, across gender, the number of people who report having masturbated before...

Gender, Sex Ed
How Masturbation Trends Have Changed Over Time
How Masturbation Trends Have Changed Over Time

November 20, 2025 by Merissa Prine

If you’re a dedicated reader or listener of Sex and Psychology, you probably already know that we love talking about masturbation, including its history, its common misconceptions, and its many...

Gender, Sex Ed
Tell Me What You Want

Tell Me What You Want

Discover what the largest survey of sexual fantasies in America tells us about the erotic mind – and how to have a healthier, hotter sex life.

Sex and Psychology Podcast

Sex and Psychology Podcast

Take a deep dive into the psychology of sex and relationships. This is the sex ed you never got in school – and won’t get anywhere else.

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