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About Dr. Lehmiller

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Dr. Justin Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years.

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How Masturbation Trends Have Changed Over Time

November 20, 2025 by Merissa Prine

If you’re a dedicated reader or listener of Sex and Psychology, you probably already know that we love talking about masturbation, including its history, its common misconceptions, and its many health benefits. We know that masturbation is common and something that most people do, but less is known about how this behavior has changed over...

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How Masturbation Trends Have Changed Over Time
Study Abroad With Me in Paris and Amsterdam!
Study Abroad With Me in Paris and Amsterdam!

November 13, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

We are excited to announce that our study abroad program with Sexual Health Alliance is back for 2026! We will be returning to Amsterdam once again, but we’re also offering...

Sex Ed
How Seasonal Affective Disorder Affects Sexual Desire
How Seasonal Affective Disorder Affects Sexual Desire

November 10, 2025 by Merissa Prine

As daylight hours shorten and the weather turns colder, it’s possible that you may have noticed a shift in your overall mood, or that you feel more tired, unmotivated, and...

Psychology
Effects Of Menstruation You Probably Don’t Know About
Effects Of Menstruation You Probably Don’t Know About

October 29, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

Despite the fact that nearly half of the population worldwide will experience menstruation at least once in their lives, we know surprisingly little about what the effects of menstruation actually...

Books & Films, Gender
How PCOS Impacts Women’s Sexual Functioning
How PCOS Impacts Women’s Sexual Functioning

October 23, 2025 by Merissa Prine

Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) is one of the most common hormonal disorders affecting women of reproductive age. In fact, the World Health Organization has stated that PCOS affects up to...

Sex Ed
Themes Of Sexual Choking On TikTok
Themes Of Sexual Choking On TikTok

October 15, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

In this post, we’re going to cover a topic that combines two things we’ve previously covered before on the blog: the rise in sexual choking and relationship content on TikTok....

Safe Sex, Sex Ed
Everyone’s a Little Kinky on Halloween (and Maybe the Rest of the Year Too)
Everyone’s a Little Kinky on Halloween (and Maybe the Rest of the Year Too)

October 8, 2025 by Merissa Prine

Halloween is a time when kink aesthetics (think leather, latex, corsets, and catsuits) frequently slip into public view. People step into roles and outfits that they might not otherwise dare...

Kink & BDSM
Tell Me What You Want

Tell Me What You Want

Discover what the largest survey of sexual fantasies in America tells us about the erotic mind – and how to have a healthier, hotter sex life.

Sex and Psychology Podcast

Sex and Psychology Podcast

Take a deep dive into the psychology of sex and relationships. This is the sex ed you never got in school – and won’t get anywhere else.

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