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About Dr. Lehmiller

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Dr. Justin Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years.

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Announcing the 13th Annual SPSP Sexuality Pre-Conference!

September 10, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

We are thrilled to announce that the thirteenth annual SPSP Sexuality Pre-Conference will take place in Chicago on Thursday, February 26, 2026! We hope you will join us for this exciting event and invite you to submit your latest research to the program! So what does sexuality look like today, and where is it headed?...

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Announcing the 13th Annual SPSP Sexuality Pre-Conference!
Women’s Reasons For Choosing Careers In Sex Work
Women’s Reasons For Choosing Careers In Sex Work

September 3, 2025 by Merissa Prine

Many have claimed that sex work is the oldest profession in the world (Ditmore, 2011, as cited in Bloomberg et al., 2025); however, it remains a highly controversial and stigmatized...

Myth vs Fact
Understanding the Modern-Day Hysterectomy
Understanding the Modern-Day Hysterectomy

August 27, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

A hysterectomy is a medical procedure that involves the removal of the uterus (and oftentimes the cervix). There are a number of different kinds of hysterectomies, as well as a...

Books & Films, Interviews
Celebrating the History of Women’s Sexuality Research
Celebrating the History of Women’s Sexuality Research

August 20, 2025 by Merissa Prine

Who was Alfred Kinsey? Alfred Kinsey (1894-1956) began his academic career as an entomologist at Indiana University, where he specialized in studying gall wasps. However, today, he is best known...

Gender, Media & Culture, Myth vs Fact
What Infidelity Looks Like In Modern Relationships
What Infidelity Looks Like In Modern Relationships

August 6, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

There’s an ongoing debate over what actually counts as cheating. For example, is flirting with someone else a form of infidelity? What about following someone you find attractive on social...

Dating & Relationships
Why We Share (And Hide) Our Sexual Fantasies
Why We Share (And Hide) Our Sexual Fantasies

July 30, 2025 by Merissa Prine

We’ve discussed sexual fantasies on the blog several times before, including the most common fantasies, how fantasies differ across cultures, and to how to share your fantasies with a partner....

Dating & Relationships, Fantasies
What It’s Like To Date An AI Chatbot
What It’s Like To Date An AI Chatbot

July 23, 2025 by Emily Mendelson

The technological advances of generative AI have led to an explosive rise in the number of people who use it in their everyday lives. While people use AI for various...

Dating & Relationships, Media & Culture
Tell Me What You Want

Tell Me What You Want

Discover what the largest survey of sexual fantasies in America tells us about the erotic mind – and how to have a healthier, hotter sex life.

Sex and Psychology Podcast

Sex and Psychology Podcast

Take a deep dive into the psychology of sex and relationships. This is the sex ed you never got in school – and won’t get anywhere else.

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